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If you couldn't think of any other reason to homeschool, this one alone would be adequate.
We all know that socialization is important. We also know that socialization skills are partly natural, partly learned, and that some children need more instruction and guidance than others in this particular area (just like some children need more guidance when it comes to helping around the house or being aware of others' needs or wishes).
We all know one other thing: the worst way to socialize kids is to shut them up with twenty other kids the same age in an artificial setting that allows for virtually no meaningful interaction, with almost no adult modeling of positive social behavior.
Homeschooling is great for academics, great for emotional and spiritual growth, and just as great for developing socially fit youngsters.
To that end, here are some ideas, articles and stories to help you address the social needs and desires of your children.
Create Social Opportunities. A few thoughts and a bunch of ways for you to meet your child's social needs and enhance his or her skills.
Social Skills I Want For My Children. Some of these may surprise you. Is reverence for life a social skill? What about small talk?
Publik Skule vs. Home School by Doug Giles
"It's been eleven months since we pulled our teenage daughters out of the public school system and started to home school them, and I could kick myself for waiting so long. The educational, emotional, spiritual and physical progress they have made has been amazing."
Diana Waring shares the social development of her children, from the "rug rat" stage to the young adult stage, with a strong dose of humor. "Perhaps the real question to be asked is, "If you DON'T homeschool your children, how will they ever be truly socialized?"
John Holt on Socialization. John Holt is always good, always thought-provoking. Here he answers questions many educators and parents have about socialization.
Freedom to Learn Who You Are. You'll love this honest essay by a young college student who was homeschooled her whole life. She chooses a small compromise that may disturb some, but it offers an opportunity to discuss such things with your children.
Convincing Evidence: Homeschooling Works! Articles and studies on homeschoolers and socialization, as well as other topics. |
